Can a mom who starts her day packing Cherrios in a luncbox become a vixen at night? We as women wear many hats, we are employees, caretakers, taxi cabs, friends, wives…but this doesn’t mean our sex lives have to suffer!

       Let’s think back a moment and remember those days of old when we were dating. The sexual relationship was much more steamier because of the anticipation. The attraction of dating is that you don’t take sex for granted, you’re fully engaged. There is seductiveness, sexual tension, the not knowing whether or not if “it” is going to happen. 

      In marriage, it’s differnt. People don’t feel the need to seduce or to build anticipation. That’s an effort couples don’t think they need to do now that they have conqurered their partner. If they’re in the mood, they think their partner should be too.

    t’s time to get practical! It’s time to put the SEXY back into monogamy! 

      You must elicit the other person’s desire. And not just five minutes before. Often times, especially for men, instead of inviting desire, you monitor it. You let her sleep late, you take the kids to the park, and all that time you’re thinking, “Tonight I’ll get some.” That doesn’t work!

***** So how can a women switch into a sexy diva after dinner? ******

You are probably already aware that women are very different from men when it relates to sex. For women, sex is not only an emotional event, but a mental one as well. Women, and men, need to understand that a women’s transition is often much longer. The women must cordon off an erotic space and time, where she focuses on herself. For example, a hot bath or a massage. 

          THE MOM DOESN’T BECOME SEXY. THE WOMEN DOES!!

What are the elements of Hot Monogamy? First, interest in the other person; they don’t want to feel like a worn out sofa! Also, it has to be sex worth wanting. In other words, a sexual experience where neither partners know from the beginning how it’s going to end…playful sex, naught, rebellious, complicitous - and accepted.

Further, sex that is not focused on results. There’s something very fulfilling in knowing that your partner accepts you as is. That’s what makes it different from dating.

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    Prostate surgery, like any surgery, can be a very worrisome event for men and their partners.  The reasons for this surgery in itself can be hard enough to deal with, let alone how it will impact life afterwards.

   Many men will experience sexual side effects of prostate surgery, not to mention the self confidence or emotional side effects.  It is common for men to gauge their manhood on their ability to perform sexually.  The best thing a couple can do is to be loving and communicate their fears and feelings with each other.  Also, remember that it may be hard for your man to open up, so be patient as well.

    I have had clients experience this difficult time first hand and have some useful suggestions to share.  Some women have reported to me that over time this issue does improve, after the healing process has occurred.  Here is some advice to share that has been useful for past clients.

     Many couples have experienced enhanced sexual pleasure using c-rings as a way to help maintain the blood flow in the penis. When using these little gadgets, you need to be sure that you have applied some sort of water based lubricant before placing the ring around his penis.  Also, just to clarify, the c-ring slides over the penis and is placed, gently, around the base, next to his skin or belly. (I have had clients not know how to use them).

    Another alternative is to try an arousal creme, specifically our Pure Satisfaction sexual enhancement gel for men and women alike.  As a matter of fact, this product has been given a “seal of approval” from Dr. Laura Masterson from the TV show The Doctors.  This scientifically developed formula is a safe, aloe vera based topical gel enriched with a blend of natural ingredients including L-arginine (an amino acid known to promote and enhance clitoral and penile sensitivity and arousal).

    I found some useful information on WebMD’s web site regarding the general topic of erectile dysfunction that you can also read up on. 

How To Be A True Goddess In Your Intimate Relationships

There is no glass ceiling when it comes to pleasure. Even if you’re already masterful in the bedroom, there’s always room for growth. Below is our guide to having chandelier-swinging, nail-clawing, heart-clutching…

1) Connect With Your Sensual Self
Knowing what you’re comfortable with in the bedroom is just as important as technique. If you’re lacking in the self-confidence department, now is the time to bone up. Dance around your apartment naked, schedule some me-time with a bedroom accessory, buy yourself a hot dress - whatever you do, find a fun way to increase your confidence and awareness on your own, so that you’re better able to rock your partner’s world later on.

2) Warm It Up
Foreplay is what stretching is to a workout; you have to prep your body and mind for what’s to come. Some partners may want to fast forward to the main event, so you must be firm on this and not allow them to skip the pre-show. Kissing, groping, biting, and stroking are all excellent go-to moves; however, nothing is more beneficial than a massage. Not only do massages feel good, but, as an added bonus, they warm up your skin and connect you with your partner. So put on some music, light a Body Massage Candle, and take turns massaging each other.

3) Try Everything At Least Once
If you’re in a relationship, it can become stale if you’re not careful. You may ask yourself `what happened?’ or feel like the spark has dimmed, but in reality, you just need to change things up. There is nothing more exhilarating than the unexpected, so experimenting with different positions or introducing a bedroom accessory might be all that is needed to put the “oh yes!” back into your bedroom adventures. For inspiration, flip through a book with your partner, such as Ride ‘Em Cowgirl, The Complete Guide, Tickle Your Fancy, or Tickle His Pickle.

Lastly, it’s important to remember that great intimate encounters aren’t about having perfect technique or rock solid abs. Instead, the best encounters of your life will happen when you are completely in the moment, ferocious with lust, and having fun.

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I want you to think back to when you and your partner first got together, I bet you couldn’t keep your hands off of one another!! Well, let’s ponder a moment and take an inventory on how much you touch or are touched: Holding Hands, Hugs, Kisses, Arm on Leg, Back Rub, Pat on Back…

O.K….In the last month, how many times HAVE you been touched? Not enough? Plenty? Somewhere along the road, things can become adrift. Women naturally are “touchy/feeling” but not as much as men. It is a natural and common progression for couples to phase out their “honeymoon” behaviors.

Feeling adrift from your partner can have sexual and emotional consequences. So, first things first, communication is the key. Talk to your partner about how YOU are feeling. It is important that you NOT tell them what they are NOT doing, as this will seem accusational and can cause them to be defensive. Stick with how you are feeling as a result of the lack of “touch”.

Massage can be very sensual in nature. It will also give you and your partner a chance to relax, unwind and “Touch” one another again, but in a different way. We have great massage aids to help you get ready I recommend using our Deluxe Love Mitten with our Romanta Therapy Massage Creamy Oil, in Green Tea. We also have a DVD available to teach you some massage techniques that are not only sensual but theraputic as well.

So your challange is 1) Set aside some alone time without distraction to talk to your partner about your feelings 2) Be spontaneous with him/her by having your massage aids all ready to engage in a nice Sensual Massage session.