Prostate surgery, like any surgery, can be a very worrisome event for men and their partners. The reasons for this surgery in itself can be hard enough to deal with, let alone how it will impact life afterwards.
Many men will experience sexual side effects of prostate surgery, not to mention the self confidence or emotional side effects. It is common for men to gauge their manhood on their ability to perform sexually. The best thing a couple can do is to be loving and communicate their fears and feelings with each other. Also, remember that it may be hard for your man to open up, so be patient as well.
I have had clients experience this difficult time first hand and have some useful suggestions to share. Some women have reported to me that over time this issue does improve, after the healing process has occurred. Here is some advice to share that has been useful for past clients.
Many couples have experienced enhanced sexual pleasure using c-rings as a way to help maintain the blood flow in the penis. When using these little gadgets, you need to be sure that you have applied some sort of water based lubricant before placing the ring around his penis. Also, just to clarify, the c-ring slides over the penis and is placed, gently, around the base, next to his skin or belly. (I have had clients not know how to use them).
Another alternative is to try an arousal creme, specifically our Pure Satisfaction sexual enhancement gel for men and women alike. As a matter of fact, this product has been given a “seal of approval” from Dr. Laura Masterson from the TV show The Doctors. This scientifically developed formula is a safe, aloe vera based topical gel enriched with a blend of natural ingredients including L-arginine (an amino acid known to promote and enhance clitoral and penile sensitivity and arousal).
I found some useful information on WebMD’s web site regarding the general topic of erectile dysfunction that you can also read up on.
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